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“Even if you’re not self-employed, your boss is you. You manage your career, your day, your responses. You manage how you sell your services and your education and the way you talk to yourself. “Odds are, you’re doing it poorly. “If you had a manager that talked to you the way you talked to you, [...]

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I’m a huge fan of heat maps, and here recently I’ve started to think about productivity in terms of heat maps, as well. The above picture is a heat map of my daily productive capacity. Productive capacity is different than what you’re actually producing. The way I think about it is that it’s the amount [...]

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An old friend of mine married late in life. He told me this story about 20 years ago now. Scotty’s wife kept saying that every 3 or 4 weeks he became, as she said it, impossible to live with. He got sullen, angry, wouldn’t communicate, and would go off and sulk. At first he didn’t [...]

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Willingness is a core concept of addiction recovery programs—and a paradoxical one. Twelve-step programs emphasize that addicts cannot will themselves into healthy sobriety—indeed, that ego and self-reliance are often a root cause of their problem. Yet recovering addicts must be willing. That is, they must be open to the possibility that the group and its [...]

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